Sunday, June 27, 2021

A Review of the Book "My Mother, a Serial Killer" by Hazel Baron & Janet Fife-Yeomans

 


Title
: My Mother, a Serial Killer
Author: Hazel Baron & Janet Fife-Yeomans
Publisher: HarperCollins Publishers
Year: 2018
237 pages


Dulcie Bodsworth seemed like your typical mom and house-wife. She took care of her children. She baked muffins for the church bake sale. She brought scones to the local police officers.

Dulcie was loved by everyone. Almost everyone.

Her daughter, Hazel, knew the real Dulcie. The woman who, behind closed doors, plotted her route to the top of the chain, to the most money, to whatever path she thought best for her life.

And she took out anyone who stood in her way. Literally.

Three men died under mysterious circumstances but no one could believe that Dulcie had anything to do with it, except for Hazel.

For years, she tried to tell people that her mother had killed these men, but Dulcie was always able to play the role of innocent victim. And, as with most sociopaths, she made it all about her.

Bravely, Hazel kept fighting for justice and eventually Dulcie ran out of room to run.

"My Mother, A Serial Killer" describes the events that took place in Australia during the 1940s and 1950s from Hazel's perspective. Hazel talked about how Dulcie lied about everything, from their name and age, to Hazel's age so that she could work and make money for the family.

It was especially interesting to hear about the trials, and how Dulcie actually almost got away with murder.

This was my first foray into a true crime novel and I can say I wasn't disappointed.

The book was well-written, with a story-like flow to the narrative that almost made you forget you were ready a true crime story.

I look forward to reading more of the same genre.

Friday, June 18, 2021

Israelite Leadership Part 3: It's All About Perception


Fourth Sunday After Pentecost

 

**Please note this service is based on the format of the Evangelical Lutheran Church of Canada. Unless otherwise indicated, all prayers come from Evangelical Lutheran Worship (ELW). Hymns and other prayers have been sourced to give appropriate credit.

 

**NRSV translation used for the readings, unless otherwise stated.

 

**This is for personal use at home as the church is unable to gather in our houses of worship but together we can worship in our own homes.

 

Introduction to the Day

Now is the acceptable time; now is the day of salvation! Now we are in the storm, the boat almost swamped; but Jesus is here now, and when we call him, he will calm the storm. Even the wind and waves listen to him as they would to their creator. We also listen to him and are called to believe in the power of God’s word in him, a power greater than all that we fear.


Confession and Forgiveness

Blessed be the holy Trinity, one God,

who forgives all our sin,

whose mercy endures forever.

Amen.

 

Almighty God, to whom all hearts are open, all desires known, and from whom no secrets are hid: cleanse the thoughts of our hearts by the inspiration of your Holy Spirit, that we may perfectly love you and worthily magnify your holy name, through Jesus Christ our Lord.

Amen.

 

Let us confess our sin in the presence of God and of one another.

 

Most merciful God,

we confess that we are captive to sin and cannot free ourselves. We have sinned against you in thought, word, and deed, by what we have done and by what we have left undone. We have not loved you with our whole heart; we have not loved our neighbors as ourselves. For the sake of your Son, Jesus Christ, have mercy on us. Forgive us, renew us, and lead us, so that we may delight in your will and walk in your ways, to the glory of your holy name.

Amen.

 

God, who is rich in mercy, loved us even when we were dead in sin, and made us alive together with Christ. By grace you have been saved. In the name of Jesus Christ, your sins are forgiven. Almighty God strengthen you with power through the Holy Spirit, that Christ may live in your hearts through faith.

Amen.

 

Gathering Song – Eternal Father, Strong to Save (ELW #756)

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Greeting

The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, the love of God, and the communion of the Holy Spirit be with you all.

And also with you.

 

Canticle of Praise – Glory to God (page #213)

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Prayer of the Day

The Lord be with you.

And also with you.

Let us pray.

O God of creation, eternal majesty, you preside over land and sea, sunshine and storm. By your strength pilot us, by your power preserve us, by your wisdom instruct us, and by your hand protect us, through Jesus Christ, our Savior and Lord.

Amen.

 

Readings

A reading from the First Book of Samuel 17.32-49

David said to Saul, “Let no one’s heart fail because of him; your servant will go and fight with this Philistine.” Saul said to David, “You are not able to go against this Philistine to fight with him; for you are just a boy, and he has been a warrior from his youth.” But David said to Saul, “Your servant used to keep sheep for his father; and whenever a lion or a bear came, and took a lamb from the flock, I went after it and struck it down, rescuing the lamb from its mouth; and if it turned against me, I would catch it by the jaw, strike it down, and kill it. Your servant has killed both lions and bears; and this uncircumcised Philistine shall be like one of them, since he has defied the armies of the living God.” David said, “The Lord, who saved me from the paw of the lion and from the paw of the bear, will save me from the hand of this Philistine.” So Saul said to David, “Go, and may the Lord be with you!”

Saul clothed David with his armor; he put a bronze helmet on his head and clothed him with a coat of mail. David strapped Saul’s sword over the armor, and he tried in vain to walk, for he was not used to them. Then David said to Saul, “I cannot walk with these; for I am not used to them.” So David removed them. Then he took his staff in his hand, and chose five smooth stones from the wadi, and put them in his shepherd’s bag, in the pouch; his sling was in his hand, and he drew near to the Philistine.

The Philistine came on and drew near to David, with his shield-bearer in front of him. When the Philistine looked and saw David, he disdained him, for he was only a youth, ruddy and handsome in appearance. The Philistine said to David, “Am I a dog, that you come to me with sticks?” And the Philistine cursed David by his gods. The Philistine said to David, “Come to me, and I will give your flesh to the birds of the air and to the wild animals of the field.” But David said to the Philistine, “You come to me with sword and spear and javelin; but I come to you in the name of the Lord of hosts, the God of the armies of Israel, whom you have defied. This very day the Lord will deliver you into my hand, and I will strike you down and cut off your head; and I will give the dead bodies of the Philistine army this very day to the birds of the air and to the wild animals of the earth, so that all the earth may know that there is a God in Israel, and that all this assembly may know that the Lord does not save by sword and spear; for the battle is the Lord’s and he will give you into our hand.”

When the Philistine drew nearer to meet David, David ran quickly toward the battle line to meet the Philistine. David put his hand in his bag, took out a stone, slung it, and struck the Philistine on his forehead; the stone sank into his forehead, and he fell face down on the ground.

 

The word of the Lord.

Thanks be to God.

 

Psalm 9

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A reading from the Second Letter of Paul to the Corinthians 6.1-13

As we work together with him, we urge you also not to accept the grace of God in vain. For he says,

“At an acceptable time I have listened to you,

    and on a day of salvation I have helped you.”

See, now is the acceptable time; see, now is the day of salvation! We are putting no obstacle in anyone’s way, so that no fault may be found with our ministry, but as servants of God we have commended ourselves in every way: through great endurance, in afflictions, hardships, calamities, beatings, imprisonments, riots, labors, sleepless nights, hunger; by purity, knowledge, patience, kindness, holiness of spirit, genuine love, truthful speech, and the power of God; with the weapons of righteousness for the right hand and for the left; in honor and dishonor, in ill repute and good repute. We are treated as impostors, and yet are true; as unknown, and yet are well known; as dying, and see – we are alive; as punished, and yet not killed; as sorrowful, yet always rejoicing; as poor, yet making many rich; as having nothing, and yet possessing everything.

We have spoken frankly to you Corinthians; our heart is wide open to you. There is no restriction in our affections, but only in yours. In return – I speak as to children – open wide your hearts also.

 

The word of the Lord.

Thanks be to God.

 

Children’s Message

(from Sermons 4 Kids)


David and Goliath

Go and grab 5 stones! Doesn’t matter what they look like, just 5 stones and bring them in front of you while you read this message.

 

You may already know about the boy named David who fought and killed a giant named Goliath. Goliath was a mighty warrior who was more than nine feet tall! It’s hard for any of us to show that height, but we can use a measuring tape. (Ask your parents for a measuring tape to see how tall nine feet is on your wall or along your floor.)

 

Goliath wasn’t only tall, but he also wore strong armor on his whole body, and he had a sword and spear. The armor weighed one hundred pounds.

 

David, on the other hand, was a young shepherd boy. He had no armor; it was too heavy for him. And he had no sword or spear. David's weapon was a slingshot and his ammunition was five smooth stones which he picked up from a nearby stream. But David defeated that giant who all the Israelite soldiers were afraid to face!

 

We might not face a nine-foot giant, but we face giants of other kinds, like insecurity, loneliness, and failure. And we can remember David’s five stones to help us defeat the giants we face.

 

The first stone represents COURAGE. (Hold the first stone in your hands.) David was not afraid to face the enemy. "Don't worry about a thing," David told Saul. "I'll go fight this Philistine!" (1 Samuel 17:32) You will use courage to face giants in your life.

 

The second stone represents CONFIDENCE.  (Hold the second stone in your hands.) As a shepherd, David protected the sheep from wild animals; so he had confidence to face Goliath. "The LORD who saved me from the claws of the lion and the bear will save me from this Philistine!" (1 Samuel 17:37) Like David, you can have confidence that God will help you overcome the problems you face.

 

The third stone represents PREPARATION.  (Hold the third stone in your hands.) David didn't face the giant unprepared. He went to the stream and collected five smooth stones in his bag. Armed with his shepherd's staff and slingshot, he went to fight Goliath. (1 Samuel 17:40) It’s important for you to prepare to face the challenges in your life, too.

 

The fourth stone represents TRUST.  (Hold the fourth stone in your hands.) David didn’t trust in his own ability. When Goliath shouted at David, cursed him, and was ready to kill him, David said, "You come to me with a sword and spear, but I come to you in the name of the LORD God Almighty." (1 Samuel 17:45) When you face problems, put your trust in God, not in your own ability.

 

The fifth stone represents VICTORY.  (Hold the fifth stone in your hands.) "It’s God's battle, not ours," David said. (1 Samuel 17:47) That’s why David had victory over the giant with only a stone and sling. When you turn your battles over to God, you’ll have the victory over the giants in your life.

 

So the next time you’re facing a giant in your life, remember David and Goliath and the five smooth stones. Say it out loud, holdings the stones in your hands – courage, confidence, preparation, trust, and victory.

 

Dear God, just as You gave David the victory in his battle with Goliath, we know that when we put our trust in You, You will give us the victory over the giants we face in our daily life. In Jesus’ name, amen.

 

Gospel Acclamation – Alleluia (page #216)

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The Lord be with you.

And also with you.

 

The Gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ according to Mark 4.35-41

Glory to you, O Lord.

On that day, when evening had come, he said to them, “Let us go across to the other side.” And leaving the crowd behind, they took him with them in the boat, just as he was. Other boats were with him. A great windstorm arose, and the waves beat into the boat, so that the boat was already being swamped. But he was in the stern, asleep on the cushion; and they woke him up and said to him, “Teacher, do you not care that we are perishing?” He woke up and rebuked the wind, and said to the sea, “Peace! Be still!” Then the wind ceased, and there was a dead calm. He said to them, “Why are you afraid? Have you still no faith?” And they were filled with great awe and said to one another, “Who then is this, that even the wind and the sea obey him?”

 

The Gospel of the Lord.

Praise to you, O Christ.

 

Sermon

May only truth be spoken and only truth received. Amen.

Today we begin by acknowledging National Indigenous People’s Day on June 21. We give thanks for the gifts these communities bring to the church and the world, and pray for all those involved in strengthening, supporting and advocating for the marginalized and vulnerable in our society.

 

Let’s keep this thought in mind as I tell you a story.

 

Ancient Palestine had along its eastern border a mountain range. In that mountain range are all of the ancient cities of that region – Jerusalem, Bethlehem, Hebron.

 

Then there's a coastal plain along the Mediterranean where Tel Aviv is now and connecting the mountain range with the coastal plain is a series of valleys and ridges that run east to West. You would have to go through this valley to get from the coastal plain to the mountains.

 

This part of Israel is full of forests and wheat fields and vineyards.

 

More importantly, though, in the history of that region, it had a real strategic function. It is how hostile armies on the coastal plain find their way up into the mountains and threaten those living in the mountains.

 

That’s where we are in today’s reading from Samuel.

 

The Philistines, who are the biggest of enemies of the Kingdom of Israel, are living in the coastal plain. They are originally a seafaring people, and they start to make their way through one of the valleys up into the mountains.

 

They want to occupy the highland area right by Bethlehem and split the Kingdom of Israel in two.

 

The king of Israel, King Saul, obviously catches wind of this and Saul brings his army down from the mountains and confronts the Philistines in the valley of Elah, one of the most beautiful of the valleys in the area.

 

The Israelites dig in along the northern ridge and the Philistines dig in along the southern ridge and the two armies just sit there for weeks and stare at each other.

 

They're deadlocked. Neither could attack the other because to attack the other side you've got to come down the mountain into the valley and then up the other side and you're completely exposed.

 

So, finally, to break the deadlock, the Philistines send their mightiest warrior down into the valley floor and he calls out and he says to the Israelites, “send your mightiest warrior down and we’ll have this out, just the two of us!”

 

This was a tradition in ancient warfare called single combat. It was a way of settling disputes without incurring the bloodshed of a major battle.

 

The Philistine sent down their mighty warrior. He is a giant. He's 6 foot 9. He's outfitted head to toe in this glittering bronze armor and he's got a sword and he's got a javelin and he's got a spear.

 

He is absolutely terrifying. He's so terrifying that none of the Israelite soldiers want to fight him.

 

It's a death wish, right? There's no way they think they can take him.

 

Finally, the only person who will come forward is this young shepherd boy, who goes up to Saul and he says, “I’ll fight” and Saul says, “you can't fight! That's ridiculous! You’re just a kid, he is a mighty warrior!”

 

But the shepherd is adamant. He says, “no, no, no, you don't understand! I have been defending my flock against lions and wolves for years. I think I can do it!”

 

Saul has no choice. No one else has come forward. Saul says, “alright then.” He turns to the kid and says, “but you've got to wear this armor. You can't go as you are.”

 

He tries to give the shepherd his armor and the shepherd says no because “I can't wear this stuff. I cannot wear this for I have not proved it” meaning “I've never worn armor before! You’ve got to be crazy!”

 

The shepherd boy reaches down, instead, and picks up five stones and puts them in his shepherd’s bag and starts to walk down the mountainside to meet the giant.

 

The giant sees this figure approaching and calls out, “come to me so I could feed your flesh to the to birds of the heavens and to the beasts of the field!” He is taunting this person coming to fight him.

 

The shepherd draws closer and closer and the giant sees that he's carrying a staff.

 

That's all he's carrying, instead of a weapon, just this shepherd staff.

 

And the giant, insulted, says, “am I a dog that you would come to me with sticks?”

 

The shepherd boy takes one of the stones out of his bag, puts it in his sling, and rolls it around and let's it fly, and it hits the giant right between the eyes! Right here in his most vulnerable spot, and he falls down, unconscious.

 

The shepherd boy runs up, takes the giant’s sword, and cuts off the giant’s head. The Philistines see this, and they turn and they just run.

 

This is, of course, the familiar story of David and Goliath.

 

David has always been considered the underdog, with the assumption that Goliath should have won that fight.

 

Why is this the assumption?

 

Is it because Goliath is so tall and David is so small?

 

Is it because Goliath has all the weapons and David has nothing but a sling and a rock?

 

In general, we tend to judge people by their appearance, even if we don’t mean to.

 

Think for a moment about your reaction to the following images:

 

A big guy, wearing a leather jacket covered in tattoos and piercings?

 

A woman dressed in a business suit?

 

A group of teenagers hanging out on the corner?

 

A person sitting outside 7-11 asking for change?

 

An elderly-looking couple sitting on their porch?

 

A well-kept lawn?

 

A backyard full of car parts and other random items?

 

Take note of your internal reactions to those images.

 

Perception is everything, and yet, it means nothing.

 

We don’t know anything about those people or those homes. We see them and we make an assumption based on our perception.

 

I have a hard one for you. One street corner has a white male asking for food. The other street corner has an Indigenous male asking for food. To whom do you have more empathy?

 

When David walks out to meet Goliath in the valley, we can imagine the Philistines laughing at David’s size and the Israelites embarrassed that their smallest person was the only one with courage enough to face the giant.

 

But they knew nothing about David, the shepherd of sheep who protects his flock from lions and other prey on a daily basis.

 

David, the man who is a sharp-shooter with a sling – a sling, not a sling-shot – 2 very different weapons – who was trained to take down a rushing lion in a single shot.

 

David, whose weapon of choice was a tame-looking rock that, actually, had similar ballistics to a .45 pistol. (Not that they would have known that, but for your knowledge.)

 

Our perception of people, our assumptions about them, need to go beyond exterior looks.

 

We need to look deeper into a person’s life history in order to get to know them, and even then, it is not our place to judge, but to have empathy and grace.

 

We also need to consider other people’s perception of us.

 

How many people put an orange frame on their Facebook profile picture over the last little while?

 

How many of us are hurting from the news, praying and grieving for those who are lost and those who are mourning?

 

Now how many of us have put our grief into action?

 

I am guilty of this as well. I will not lie.

 

We have created a perception that we walk with the Indigenous community who are now up to 572 souls who were stolen, lost, and now found.

 

But it’s easy to grieve for these babies and children.

 

It’s easy to reflect an air of grief and sorrow for the families.

 

It’s all about perception.

 

Now we need to care and grieve for those who survived.

 

We need to action on behalf of the alcoholic, the drug addict, the beggars, and the parents who never got to parent.

 

We need to walk with those who physically survived Residential Schools but have lost their futures.

 

We need to recognize that we have an opportunity to correct our perception of the Indigenous community by learning the factual history of Canada, extend apologies, and make change for the future of our relationship with them.

 

It is easy to be Goliath, a giant who expects everyone to tremble before us. A giant who will stomp on anyone in our way.

 

We need to be David. Going into the fight with nothing but a few stones and a strong faith in God as our weapons.

 

When David’s stone hit Goliath in the forehead, history was forever changed.

 

It’s time for us to pick up our stones and take down our own Goliath’s.


Amen. 

 

Hymn of the Day – Jesus Saviour, Pilot me (ELW #755)

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Creed

Let us confess the faith of our baptism, as we say the Apostles’ Creed:

I believe in God, the Father almighty,

creator of heaven and earth.

I believe in Jesus Christ, God’s only Son, our Lord,

who was conceived by the Holy Spirit,

born of the virgin Mary,

suffered under Pontius Pilate,

was crucified, died, and was buried;

he descended to the dead.*

On the third day he rose again;

he ascended into heaven,

he is seated at the right hand of the Father,

and he will come to judge the living and the dead.

I believe in the Holy Spirit,

the holy catholic church,

the communion of saints,

the forgiveness of sins,

the resurrection of the body,

and the life everlasting. Amen.

 

Prayers of Intercession

Let us come before the triune God in prayer.

 

Silence

 

Holy God, you gather your people from east and west, north and south. We pray for the mission of the church throughout the world, that your steadfast love may be made known to all peoples.

Lord, in your mercy,

Hear our prayer.

 

You laid the foundations of the earth and the waters are the womb of creation. The morning stars sing your name and all creation shouts for joy. We pray for your blessed creation, that it may continue to flourish and magnify your glory.

Lord, in your mercy,

Hear our prayer.

 

You keep watch over all nations. We pray for countries experiencing violence, hunger, and unrest. Guide worldwide and local community organizations in their efforts to establish safety and justice.

Lord, in your mercy,

Hear our prayer.

 

You are close to the brokenhearted and near to those in distress. We pray for those who are experiencing oppression. Liberate us from the systems and chains that bind us. Remove the barriers that separate us from one another.

Lord, in your mercy,

Hear our prayer.

 

You dwell with us in this faith community. We pray for our leaders and elders. Grant them knowledge, patience, and kindness, that through their leadership you may be exalted in this assembly.

Lord, in your mercy,

Hear our prayer.

 

Please take time to offer your own intercessions or to pray in silence.

 

Your love endures in all situations. On this Father’s Day, we pray for those who are fathers or wish to be fathers, for those with broken or strained relationships, for those who are missing their fathers, and for fathers who have lost children. Bless and strengthen them.

Lord, in your mercy,

Hear our prayer.

 

We lift our prayers to you, O God, trusting in your abiding grace.

Amen.

 

Peace

The peace of Christ be with you always.

And also with you.

 

Hymn of Thanksgiving – Praise and Thanksgiving (ELW #689)

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**Although not physically at our church buildings to share our offering together I would encourage you to set your offering of money aside so that it can be dropped off or placed in the church once services resume, to mail your offering to the church, or to make donations online. Please remember ministry is still taking place.

 

Thanksgiving for the Word

Let us pray.

Praise and thanks to you, holy God, for by your Word you made all things: you spoke light into darkness, called forth beauty from chaos, and brought life into being. For your Word of life, O God,

we give you thanks and praise.

 

By your Word you called your people Israel to tell of your wonderful gifts: freedom from captivity, water on the desert journey, a pathway home from exile, wisdom for life with you. For your Word of life, O God,

we give you thanks and praise.

 

Through Jesus, your Word made flesh, you speak to us and call us to witness: forgiveness through the cross, life to those entombed by death, the way of your self-giving love. For your Word of life, O God,

we give you thanks and praise.

 

Send your Spirit of truth, O God; rekindle your gifts within us: renew our faith, increase our hope, and deepen our love, for the sake of a world in need. Faithful to your Word, O God, draw near to all who call on you; through Jesus Christ, our Savior and Lord, to whom, with you and the Holy Spirit, be honor and glory forever.

Amen.

 

Lord’s Prayer

Gathered into one by the Holy Spirit, let us pray as Jesus taught us.

 

Our Father, who art in heaven,

hallowed be thy name,

thy kingdom come,

thy will be done,

on earth as it is in heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread;

and forgive us our trespasses,

as we forgive those

who trespass against us;

and lead us not into temptation,

but deliver us from evil.

For thine is the kingdom,

and the power, and the glory,

forever and ever. Amen.

 

Blessing

May our glorious God grant you a spirit of wisdom to know and to love the risen Lord Jesus.

 

The God of life, Creator, Redeemer, and Sanctifier, bless you now and forever.

Amen.

 

Sending Song – My Life Flows On (ELW #763)

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Dismissal

Go in peace. Christ is with you.

Thanks be to God.