Wednesday, October 25, 2023

A Review of the Book "Trans Affirming Churches" by Christina Beardsley and Chris Dowd


Title: Trans Affirming Churches
Author: Christina Beardsley and Chris Dowd
Publisher: Jessica Kingsley Publishers
Year: 2020
154 pages

These two authors have done much research and wrote many books between them about the transgender community finding their place in religious society. Combining the interview method with scriptural analysis, Beardsley (who is trans) and Dowd put together this little handbook on how churches can be affirming to the trans community.

This book is an excellent resource for churches who are exploring how they can be more inclusive, covering subjects like understanding who trans people are, what it says in the bible about trans people, and some practical advice on how to become more affirming. It is easy to read and could be used easily for faith education. Appendix A even includes an outline syllabus for a professional development day.

One drawback for me is that the authors are based in England which can be very different from Canada in church life, health care systems, and culture. It makes me wonder if there is a similar resource for Canadian churches, using Canadian sources.

Overall, it's a good easy read that definitely gives you some information to work from in moving forward towards inclusivity in your church.

Friday, October 20, 2023

Dear You, From Paul: A Sermon for the 21st Day After Pentecost

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Grace, Mercy, and Peace to you in the name of Christ our Saviour. Amen.

 

Imagine if the IRSM existed during a time where there were no phones, or internet, and slow-moving vehicles. Our community would have looked like Paul’s. Maybe a couple of times a year, I’d make it to each of our parishes for a service and some visiting, but all other pastoral care would have been through writing letters.

 

In that sense, I feel a bit of a kindred spirit with Paul in that he would have been a pastor to several churches, and he would have travelled many miles to visit them. He was a circuit-riding preacher and his main form of communication was letter writing. Because of the large distances between these communities, Paul didn’t have the ability to go back and forth all the time, so he relied greatly on his skill at writing pastoral letters as a way of mentoring his communities.

 

Paul founded many Christian churches and wrote many letters, many of which were chiding communities that he heard were going against what he had taught and trying to set them once again on the right path. So, while it may strike us as odd that what would be considered old pieces of mail from Paul would be important enough that they are included in the scriptures, and that they would be studied and commented upon, it is in these letters that we gain historical and theological insights into the beginning of the Christian movement.

 

This is especially the case with this letter to the Thessalonians. Scholars believe that this letter was the first of Paul’s epistles, which would make these words very old. And since these scholars are quite certain that the writing of the epistles pre-dates the writing down of the Gospels by a good bit of time, 1 Thessalonians is thought to be the earliest document ever written about following the ministry of Jesus Christ. In other words, this may be the first bit of Christian writing and theological reflection ever.

 

The purpose of the letter is pretty clear. Paul, Silvanus, and Timothy had worked in Thessalonica to successfully establish various house churches that were united enough that he addressed his letter to “The Church of the Thessalonians.” It appears that these three men were forced to flea Thessalonica, likely due to local opposition, and very likely before they were ready to leave.

 

Paul’s concern for this community is evident in the fact that he sent Timothy back into the den, as it was, to check up on everyone. What he heard back must have been really good because Paul’s letter to the Thessalonians, the opening of which we heard today, is full of praise and thanksgiving. Because Timothy’s report was reassuring, Paul transitions from his short greeting immediately to expressions of gratitude for the community. He is especially encouraged by their perseverance despite persecution in the “work of faith and labor of love and steadfastness of hope.” You will hear this pattern of faith, love, and hope again later in the letter.

 

One of the most notable features of this section is Paul’s emphasis on the power and presence of the living God who has been at work among the Thessalonians. He does not seek to prove that God has acted powerfully in him and the community; he takes it for granted. In fact, the experience of God’s powerful presence serves as a key premise upon which Paul writes his thanksgiving and later exhortations. And we should not dismiss this vibrant awareness of the nearness of the living God as an outdated premise. Being aware of God’s power and presence in our lives holds rich vitality for our spiritual life.

 

We will never be able to fully understand the experiences of Paul, Silvanus, Timothy, and the Thessalonian community. But we can remain prayerfully aware of the presence and power of God who is constantly working in and around us. It is this awareness that will allow us to be transformed by the experience of the living God.

 

On the basis of such experience, Paul writes that the Thessalonians became imitators of him, his colleagues, and of Christ, as well as examples and messengers for others. Now it’s not that Paul feels people should copy their lives after him because he thinks he’s “all that”. In Paul’s ancient Greco-Roman context, imitation of models was the basis of education and moral formation. In order to learn how to write, form arguments, and live a good life, people would follow the examples of others who modeled how it should be done. Paul bore the responsibility of providing such a model for the communities he founded in the early Christ movement. What Paul was encouraging the Thessalonians to do was to imitate his efforts to serve God in anticipation of the return of the Messiah, which they all thought would happen in their lifetime.

 

So, what does it mean for us to be aware of the God’s power and presence in our lives? To imitate Paul and the Thessalonian community in imitating their servitude to God?

 

It means to turn, serve, and wait in faith, love, and hope. The Thessalonians turned from idols, served God, and now wait for the return of the Messiah from heaven. Paul’s practical advice is that they are to not wait idly by, that faith and work are not mutually exclusive. He instructs the Thessalonians to continue in their work, specifying even the tangibility of working with their hands, so that need would not exist among the believers, and they would give a good witness to others. They have been transformed by their belief in Christ, but that does not mean that regular life has come to an end. They are still responsible to be faithful in their vocations. For them to continue to grow into their stellar reputation, work needs to be an element right along with faith, hope, and love.

 

In order for us to be imitators of Paul, we must have a faith that is active and productive, building muscles of faith that requires going out on a limb for Jesus, trusting him when all about us denies the wisdom of that trust.

 

In order for us to be imitators of Paul, we must have a love that labours. The very character of God is love so in imitation of God, we should also be love. Love is a quality that should consume us and we should look to Jesus that this love may grow in us as a gift of God's grace.

 

In order for us to be imitators of Paul, we must have a hope that strengthens. Developing strong hope in the coming of the Messiah gives us the ability to handle anything that life throws at us. Hope is knowing that no matters what happens today, we will have eternal life in the Kingdom of God.

 

In his very first epistle, Paul wrote a glowing letter to the Thessalonian community that was full of praise and thanksgiving. According to his opening dialogue, he was glad for the work they were doing, for their desire to imitate his servitude to God, and that they were doing so while full of faith, love, and hope.

 

If Paul were writing a letter to the IRSM, whether to an individual parish or the ministry as a whole, what do you think he would have to say?

 

Amen.




Resources:
"Feasting on the Word" edited by David Bartlett and Barbara Brown Taylor
"New Collegeville Bible Commentary: New Testament" edited by Daniel Durken
cepreaching.org
workingpreacher.org
lectionarystudies.com

Friday, October 13, 2023

God's Feast: A Sermon for the 20th Day After Pentecost

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Grace, Mercy, and Peace to you in the name of Christ our Saviour. Amen.

 

A few years ago, maybe more than a few, I wanted to celebrate an important birthday in a big way. So, I sent invitations out, asking people to meet me at a restaurant for food, drink, and a good time. Based on the responses, I expected a big bash with all my friends. In the end, only a couple of people showed up.

 

Frustrating, isn’t it? You take the trouble to send out invitations, people respond back in the affirmative, you make preparations, but then they don’t show.

 

That’s exactly what happened to the king in today’s parable. He was holding a wedding banquet for his son and so he sent out invitations to all sorts of people. And he based his meat and food order on how many people said they were going to come. He must have gotten a lot of positive responses because he cooked off some oxen and a bunch of fat calves. But then on the day of the banquet, no one showed up.

 

The king is understandably upset that all this meat is prepared and there is no one to eat it. So, he sends his slaves out to those who accepted his invitation, telling them that dinner was ready. But the guests had all the excuses. One had a farm to tend to, another had his business. What a lack of consideration for the king! I’m sure we can all understand his anger at the situation, even if his retribution is a little over the top. What’s he going to do with all of this already-prepared meat?

 

At this point, the king just needs some people to come and eat dinner, so he sends his slave to gather anyone off the street who is hungry. It doesn’t matter at this point who they are, whether they are good people or bad. In Luke, where this parable is also found, it says they are to bring in “the poor, the maimed, the blind, and the lame.” The king just doesn’t want to see all this food go to waste. Gone is the need for a special invitation. All are welcome to the king’s feast!

 

But wait. If that’s the case, if all are now welcome to the table, why does the king reject the man wearing the wrong clothes? If people are being brought in from the street, it’s not like they would have had time to go home and change. Well, it’s likely that the king would have had a robe the man could have borrowed. The same way a fancy restaurant would lend patrons a jacket if that was what was required to enter the establishment. So the lack of wedding robe isn’t the underlying issue here. It’s the man’s lack of response to the king. It says, “he was speechless.” By refusing to respond to the king and put on the proper clothes, the man has removed himself from the party.

 

Gospel living begins with an invitation, but it can’t remain a mere idea. The man in the wrong clothes accepted the invitation of the gospel but refused to conform his life to the gospel. Are we willing to accept the invitation to God’s feast? Are we willing to put in the work of loving God, loving others, and loving ourselves? By saying yes to the invitation, we are declaring that our behaviour will align with the covenant that we have with God. By putting on the wedding robe, we are putting on Christ, meaning that we will live out our baptismal covenant in clear and visible ways.

 

According to Marvin McMickle, there are many Christians who are like the ones in the parable who refuse the invitation from God. They want the safe route to discipleship, but they shy away from the difficult work of outreach and social justice. They want peace on earth, but don’t want to work toward that end. They want to end world hunger, but they don’t want to serve a meal at a soup kitchen. They are always in for a free meal, but don’t want to donate groceries to a food pantry.

 

Through worship, God invites us to a party where Holy Communion is a feast for all of us – friends and strangers. We share bread, wine, and blessings together at the table. And the number one rule for this party is that the Lord will take anybody who shows up. As it says in John, “For God so loved the world that whoever believes in God shall not perish but have eternal life.”

 

But we must go beyond simply accepting the invitation to the table. The parable today is a warning to listen to God and to do the work of God – loving God, loving others, and loving ourselves. To not do that work is to refuse the Kingdom of God. To give false lip service to this ministry is to show up in the wrong clothes.

 

So, will you accept God’s invitation and then make excuses not to show up?

 

Or will you accept the invitation, clothe yourself in Christ, and give honour to God by living out the Gospel?

 

Many are called, says Jesus, but few are chosen. And it is we who do the choosing. Are you ready? If you are, then God will be with you wherever you are, wherever you go. Because God passionately wants us to come to the banquet.

 

Amen.





Resources:
"The Parables of Jesus" by Neal F Fisher
"Feasting on the Word" edited by David Bartlett and Barbara Brown Taylor
pulpitfiction.com
episcopalchurch.org

Friday, October 6, 2023

A Dose of Gratitude: A Sermon for Thanksgiving Sunday



Grace, Mercy, and Peace to you in the name of Christ our Saviour. Amen.

 

Today is Thanksgiving Sunday. Maybe some of us will be celebrating with family, eating way too much food, perhaps football will be on the television. But, following up on last week’s discussion on truth and reconciliation, there is a dark history to Thanksgiving in Canada.

 

Celebrating the harvest was always an important event for Indigenous people. It was a time to give thanks to nature’s bounty and for the health of the community. First Nations across Turtle Island have traditions of thanksgiving for surviving winter and for receiving crops and game as a reward for their hard work. These traditions may include feasting, prayer, dance, potlatch, and other ceremonies, depending on the peoples giving thanks.

 

When European settlers began coming to Turtle Island, Indigenous people saved them from starvation by sharing their food and their knowledge of survival on the vast lands of trees, water, and wild weather. Without having learned skills in planting, hunting, and fishing, the colonialists would have surely died. In return, the following year those same colonialists burned and murdered the Indigenous people. Not a great way to say thank you.

 

It's easy to see why many people feel a little ambivalent to this holiday. Don’t get me wrong. I like a good turkey dinner with all the fixings just as much as the next guy. But it sure is hard to be thankful around a table full of food when you know the history of the holiday and you consider what’s happening all around the world, and especially in our own backyards.

 

Wouldn’t lament be more appropriate? Or a cry for justice? Or a call to action? Certainly, these are also possibilities and have their time and place. But for just this moment, and given today’s reading, I am reminded that of all of our responses to events, blessed or challenging, great or small, one of the most powerful is that of thanksgiving.

 

In the passage of Luke before us we have yet another story of Jesus healing people with whom he has no business interacting. Ten men approach him, unclean and outcast, pleading with Jesus to heal them. Which, of course, he did.

 

All these men would have been quite surprised to find themselves healed. Perhaps some were overjoyed. Perhaps some celebrated. Perhaps others ran to tell their family and friends. Perhaps a few even took it for granted. We don’t know what happened to nine of the men, but we know that only one returned to thank Jesus for curing him. Only one decided to actually express his gratitude to Jesus and to God.

 

Were all ten lepers healed? Yes. Were they all saved? Yes, in the sense that they were rescued from their disease. But not in the sense of drawing close to God in thankfulness and appreciation. The nine were saved physically but not spiritually.

 

Our natural response here would be to rebuke those nine men who ran off without even a slight word of thanks. But consider this. The other nine did nothing wrong. In fact, they did exactly as they were told and presumably also enjoyed being healed. Again, they didn’t do anything wrong and received the blessing promised them.

 

So, what does the man who returned receive? Certainly, the blessing of healing, as did the other nine. But also the blessing that comes from recognizing blessing and giving thanks — the blessings, that is, of wholeness and even salvation.

 

Returning to God and giving thanks and praise is central to our faith. When we read this account of the ten lepers, we can’t help but be drawn to our central liturgical eucharistic prayer. “Let us give thanks to the Lord our God. It is right to give our thanks and praise. It is indeed right, our duty and our joy, that we should at all times and in all places give thanks and praise to you, almighty and merciful God.”

 

This Eucharistic prayer is like our weekly dose of gratitude. The words of the prayer are meant to characterize every part of our Christian living – our mundane, trivial, ordinary, everyday life. It our duty to show ourselves grateful to God with our whole life. The words of the Great Thanksgiving calls us to live Eucharistic lives. But what does it mean to live a Eucharistic life?

 

It means loving others. After hearing stories of how Jesus showed love to others, we try to show God’s love to everyone we meet. It is easy to show love to the people who are nice to us, but it is very hard to be nice to the people who we find hard to love. This is exactly what Jesus asks us to do!

 

It means looking after creation. God has made so many beautiful things for us that we need to make sure we look after them. God wants us to look after the people, the animals, the plants, and everything else in creation.

 

It means caring for those in need. Jesus taught us to care for others who have less than we do. We can do this through prayer and through giving to places like your local food bank, or to Camp Mercedes near the Provencher Bridge.

 

It means announcing the Gospel. God wants us to be evangelists! At the end of each service, we are sent out into the world to take what we have learned through the readings and prayers and live like Jesus and show God’s love to people in our daily lives.

 

It means to do your best. Even when it was really hard, Jesus always did his best to do what he knew God wanted. He often prayed to God to give him the strength he needed to do what was right.

 

It means to help, share, and show kindness. Through his life, Jesus was always aware of people who needed his help. We too, need to always be ready to help others. Another way of showing God’s love to others is by sharing. There were many times when Jesus shared with others. And we can show kindness to other people, especially people who others are not kind to.

 

This world is full of blessing and challenges. Which will we focus on? Truth be told, there is a time for lament and cries for justice and activism. But given that we live in a culture filled with blame and accusation and almost devoid of thanksgiving, maybe on this day, and remembering the tenth leper, we can go forth to be heralds of blessing and bearers of powerful words of gratitude and to live the Eucharistic life to which we are called.

 

Amen.




Resources:
cbc.ca
canadashistory.ca
"Feasting on the Word" edited by David Bartlett and Barbara Brown Taylor
pulpitfiction.com
workingpreacher.com

Tuesday, October 3, 2023

On Friendship

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"Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another: "What! You too? I thought that no one but myself . . ."" - C.S. Lewis

Friendship is such a strange concept. You pick a random human you've just met and you decide that you like them and you want to do stuff with them. Hopefully the feeling is mutual and reciprocated.

Know one really knows how it starts, or why. Sometimes friendships are fleeting and sometimes they last a lifetime. And, I think, friendships have changed over the years. When I was growing up, you went next door, knocked, and your friends came out to play. Usually it was a whole neighbourhood full of kids. As we grew up into adulthood, and especially as technology has become an increasingly important part of our lives, what defines friendship is different.

More than likely, we are becoming friends with people we may never meet, where entire conversations happen over some sort of social media medium, rather than at a kitchen table with a coffee in hand. Does that lessen the friendship? If you never have a face-to-face conversation with a person, does that mean the friendship isn't real?

I don't think so. I definitely have people in my life that I may never meet, or have only met once or twice, but talk to them almost daily. No way would I consider those friendships "less than". In fact, I believe that online friendships are a lot more common than we might want to admit. The days of meeting for coffee or hanging out in each other's houses are becoming few and far between. Is this good or bad? The jury is still out on that, but we certainly shouldn't negate online friendships, in the meantime.

Another strange thing about friendships is how fragile they are, and how things can change in an instant. Most people need some sort of contact and connection with other people. Even us introverts. And while kids can walk up to the playground and make a lifelong friend, it is very hard to make friends as adults. So when we do make a friend, we try to hold on to them for dear life. We get nervous when they don't reply to our messages, assuming that we've done something to ruin the friendship. The anxiety gets the best of us as we being to assume the friendship is dead and we are alone again. Perhaps we even question whether or not there was really a friendship there, that maybe we read to much into it all.

Why do we put ourselves through it all? That's a really good question. If I ever figure it out, I'll let you know.

Until then, good luck and enjoy the friends you have - in person or online.