Does anyone here
like to cook or bake?
Over
the years, I have discovered that cooking and baking are two very different
things. In cooking, I start with a recipe to get the base list of ingredients
and cooking times. If the recipe is new, I might buy the exact ingredients I
need. Very often, though, I am missing an ingredient or two and either drop
them from the meal or replace them. It’s fairly easy to change up things like
the protein, the vegetable, and even some of the seasonings to use what I
already happen to have on hand. I especially love making chili because I can
open the fridge, freezer, and cupboards and just throw in whatever ingredients
I find!
I
learned pretty quickly that a baking recipe really needs to be followed to the
letter. The exact amount of flour, sugar, baking powder, salt, and the like
must be used or the recipe turns out either completely different or completely
disastrous. There isn’t total rigidity. When I was baking the banana bread, I
changed the walnuts for chocolate chips, but for the most part, baking requires
you to be specific in what ingredients are used and how much.
Baking
is a science. You should always pick the best ingredients and follow the law of
the recipe. Cooking is more flexible. Sure, you could go out and buy the best
ingredients, or you could cook with what you have and let God take care of the
rest. Of course, in the end, just because you follow the recipe, doesn’t mean
everything will work out. Sometimes, we make poor choices in ingredients. I
once replaced pasta with lentils (because I had some in the cupboard and wanted
to use them up) and ended up with mush. I think we ended up ordering pizza that
night.
Our
lives are full of choices, and not just in the kitchen. We live with so many
choices, so many obligations, so many demands and opportunities that can become
overwhelming. How often have you had two opportunities fall into your lap and
you had to spend time weighing out the pros and cons, praying that you will
make the right decision? How many times in your life have you made a choice
knowing that you have to just wait and see what happens in order to see the
fruits of that decision?
This
is where today’s parable comes in. Yes, the sower planted with good seeds. Yes,
there are now weeds strewn among the wheat that puts the ideal harvest the
sower had imagined at risk. Ideally, the servants could just rip out the weeds,
but the sower knows that to tear out the weeds now risks ruining the maturing
wheat as well. And so the sower must wait, living with both the wheat and the
weeds until the day of harvest when they may be separated in due time.
Our
lives are littered with situations where there is no clear or easy answer. That
is where faith becomes so important. In this parable, Jesus tells us that in
challenging situations we have the promise that, in the end, God will sort
things out. That doesn’t mean everything will turn out just fine. Sometimes we
don’t choose well. Sometimes things go wrong.
We
don’t live in an ideal world and each week we’re faced with challenging
decisions, some small and others large, to which there is no clear answer. Some
decisions we’ll get right, others wrong, and still others we won’t know whether
we were right or wrong for months or years to come. But we still need to make
them. And then, each week, no matter how we fared, we can come back to church
on Sunday morning to be reminded that God loves us anyway and promises that, in
the end, God will hold all of our choices and all of our lives together in
love.
The
promise here isn’t that Christian faith prevents hardship; the promise is that
we are not justified by our right choices but rather by grace through faith.
And knowing we have God’s boundless goodness, love, welcome, and forgiveness in spite of our choices frees us to live in the moment.
Amen.
Good message for families.
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