Chapter 4 – Blessedness
The
pursuit of happiness. Isn’t that what life is all about? The constant pursuit
of that one thing, that one item, that one activity, that one person, that one
event that will bring us the happiness that we long for. The search for the
next best thing that will bring us perfect happiness. Social media is the
perfect medium to show us all of the ways we should be happy, and all of the
reasons we’re not. We envy what others have and the perfect life you see in
their pictures and their posts, and we do everything we can to emulate those
supposed perfect lives. But what we see on social media are the edited and
filtered images of strangers and acquaintances that we know nothing about. Just
because you see someone smiling on their latest Facebook or Instagram post, do
you know if they are truly happy? To bring it back inward, consider how many
times you may have posted a smiling picture of yourself, but you weren’t really
feeling like smiling? Or how many times you’ve bought, chased, or pursued
something you though would make you happy, but in the end, that one item, that
one activity, that one person, that one event didn’t bring you the happiness
you were expecting?
Jesus’
beatitudes are sometimes considered a happiness checklist. If you just did the
things on Jesus’ list, you would find happiness. But, according to one of this
week’s authors, James Howell, “to be ‘blessed’ isn’t catchy advice on how to go
and be happy; ‘blessed’ is being swept up in God’s decisive movement in the
world.” (23-24) Being blessed means to accept the gifts God has given you, even
if they aren’t the gifts you expected. You might feel blessed to have a lot of
money or plenty of material possessions, but they won’t necessarily bring you
happiness. However, you could feel blessed to be alive, to have a roof over
your head, or to have friends and family in your life, and those things might bring
you all the happiness in the world.
The
beatitudes are meant to help us build our relationships, not our happiness.
Although, doing so will almost certainly raise our level of happiness. The
beatitudes are meant to show us how to treat our fellow human beings and to
remind us that even when we are feeling at our lowest, we know that God calls
us blessed. As Saint Francis of Assisi states, “be unassuming in speech, be
grave in your manner, and grateful for the favors and benefits you may receive.
The kingdom of God, which is eternal, will be your reward.” (27)
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