Chapter 23 – Love
of Enemy
One
of the two most important commandments that God gives to us through Jesus is to
love our neighbours as ourselves. It is the divine instruction that our entire
lives as Christians ought to be based upon. And it really shouldn’t be that
hard to do. But it is, isn’t it?
Loving
someone you like is easy. Your parents, maybe? Or your siblings? Other members
of your family? Your best friend? That neighbour you like? These can all be easy
people to love. But what about that kid who teased you in school? Or your
bully? Or that one person who always needs to be the center of attention? Or
how about the stranger you meet in the street? Or the homeless person? Or
someone of a different culture than you?
Both
lists are endless. It is human nature to find it easier to love those who are
like you than to love those who are different from you. It is easier to keep
hating someone, than to start loving them. It is certainly hard to love someone
who hates you.
Martin
Luther King Jr states, “hate for hate only intensifies the existence of hate
and evil in the universe…The strong person is the person who can cut off the
chain of hate.” (p. 143) The easy path is to seek revenge on another person
rather than to seek reconciliation.
That
said, reconciliation takes both parties but there’s no rule that states you can’t
love the other person, allowing yourself to heal while working on everything
external. King also states that, “love has within it a redemptive power. And
there is a power there that eventually transforms individuals.” (p 145) Love
leads to transformation; hate stalls it - whether in yourself or in others.
God, through Jesus, calls us to be people of love. And sometimes that means loving our enemies as much, maybe more so, than ourselves or our neighbours. Because, in the end, we are all neighbours to each other, connected to one another simply by the fact that we are all human.
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