Chapter 27 – When
You Pray
Prayer
is an important of our Christian life. Jesus calls on us to always be in prayer.
It can be hard to know how to pray. We are so worried about saying the right things,
or not asking for too much, or knowing what to ask for in the first place! And sometimes
talking about praying can bring mixed emotions. How often have you heard “thoughts
and prayers” over the last several years? While the phrase has lost its
meaning, praying is one of the things that we, as Christians, can do always and
often, and we trust that praying has an effect on the world.
There
are several points that catch my attention in this chapter about prayer. One of
them has to do with thinking that we ought not bother to pray because we don’t
know the right way to do so. Daniel Doriani says that our words don’t need to
be good enough, they just need to be. He says, “The problem in prayer is not
that God is too busy for us, but that we feel too busy for him.” (p. 170) How often
have you said to yourself, “I’ll pray later because I don’t have time now”? Our
lives are busy, but you don’t need a lot of time for prayer. Walking to the
bus? Pray! Driving in your car? Pray? And the prayer doesn’t need to be long. It
could be a single word: help! God is never to busy to hear what you have to say.
You shouldn’t be so busy that you can’t take a moment to speak to God.
Karl
Barth tells us that no matter how we pray, make sure our heart is in it.
Without heart, the prayer is meaningless. He also says that “prayer uttered in
a language that we do not understand or which the congregation at prayer does
not understand is a mockery to God…for the heart cannot be in it.” (p. 169) A
previous bishop of mine always introduced the Lord’s Prayer by saying, “Now, in
the language and words with which you are most comfortable, let us say together
the Lord’s Prayer.” It’s such a small thing, but inviting people to pray in
their own language allows them to connect to the prayer not only with they
tongue, but also with their whole heart.
Finally,
Mother Teresa reminds us that after you’ve spoken with God, remember to listen
for a response. She says, “Listen in silence, because if your heart is full of
other things, you cannot hear the voice of God. But when you have listened to
the voice of God in the stillness of your heart, then your heart is filled with
God.” (p. 173)
If
prayer is about God, and not about us, how might this change the way you pray?
(Reflection question from p .347)
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